Friday, November 1, 2019

DIVINE WEDDINGS ON EARTH REFLECT HUMAN EARTHLY EXPERIENCE OF PAIN AND PLEASURE


DIVINE WEDDINGS ON EARTH REFLECT HUMAN EARTHLY EXPERIENCE OF PAIN AND PLEASURE
(Compilation for a Discourse by N.R. Srinivasan, Nashville, TN, USA, November, 2019)

My thoughts were drawn to a Kalyanotsava Celebration on  Karthik Skanda Shashthi Day modeled after Hindu Samskara for humans  extended to  some popular Puranic Gods, a brain wave of ancient Tamil Bhagavatas inspired by Sita Rama Kalyana described in Ramayana with added fun and frolic by modern devotees! Puranas, Pauranikas and Musicians have also significantly contributed to this temple colorful celebration.


Devasena, the celestial wife, is married in a traditional arranged marriage while the earthy Valli is won by Murugan, resulting in a love marriage.  It praises him as the god who is allowed to have polygamy with two wives, Devasena – the daughter of Indra and Valli, a hunter princess.  Murugan is described to equally spend his time on earth and in heaven.   Devasena and Valli are representations of Kriya shakti (the power of action) and Icchaa Sakti, the symbol of the transcendental Jnaana-shakti (the power of knowledge) say Pauranikas.  In Tamil literature, two kinds of love are mentioned: karpu ("chastity"), love bound in the traditional marriage, represented by Devasena and kalavu, love before marriage, conveyed by Valli, in Gandharva vivaha


In North India Kartikeya is generally considered as celibate and unmarried while Ganesha is a celibate to South Indians.   Sanskrit scriptures generally regard only Devasena as the consort of Kartikeya, while Tamils glorify him with his two consorts, Devayanai (Devasena) and Valli. Who is right we do not know? Probably it is a Tamil phantasy to celebrate his wedding with a celestial and a hunter princess!  Ramayana which spent one whole chapter on Kumarasambhava does not talk about these weddings.  Vedas say Skanda is Santkumara.   I believe Rudra of Veda   was made the auspicious Siva, Uma daughter of Himavan was made his consort of Siva and Sanatkumara was made their most enlightened beloved son to spin into Skanda Purana! 


Goddess Lakshmi, had a fight with Lord Vishnu as she felt that Bhrigu insulted her indirectly by hitting Vishnu on his chest where Sri lived and thus left Vaikunta. She came and settled on earth in disguise in the ancient city of Karavir (Kolhapur) and meditated on Vishnu where today the Mahalaxmi temple is found. Lord Vishnu soon arrived on earth searching for Goddess Lakshmi. But He failed to find her and instead settled on Seshachalam hills inside an anthill. During the search, Lord Srinivasa met the beautiful girl named Padmavati.


This Vishnu in the anthill was an incarnation as Srinivasa born to a woman named  Vakula Devi who was Yashoda in her previous birth. It is said that in Dwapara Yuga, Krishna presented Yashoda a boon that he will be born as Srinivasa to her and will marry Padmavati whose wedding she could personally arrange and witness to fulfill her desire. Krishna and Padmavati both fell in love and decided to get married to fulfill his promise to his mother.  So it was not a lifetime arrangement of universal binding force of love but just to complete the promise made. So after marriage he continued to live separate from her. This wedding    did not run smooth and he had a disturbed life.  Meanwhile Lakshmi being afraid of losing him rushed to Tirumalai and got herself firmly established in his chest. Only Vishnu’s other consort Bhudevi was hanging on to him with loyalty. That is why even today Srinivasa Kalyanotsava is popular with Sridevi and Bhudevi and not with Padmavati.


According to folklore, Meenakshi was the daughter of Pandya King Malayadwaja Pandyan. She ruled Madurai after her father and conquered many kingdoms. During one such conquests she met Lord Shiva and fell in love with him.  As promised to Meenakshi, Lord Shiva came to Madurai as Lord Sundareswarar to marry her after which both ruled Madurai.   This wedding was also fantasied as a romantic love story of ever ascetic Siva by Tamils. Siva’s married life with Sachi was miserable and his marriage with Parvati was no better though Parvati was very loyal and always appeared to pride in her  “sola singar” bridal attire.  She could never cherish her desire to have a womb-born child? Yet people worship   Siva-Parvati as happy married couple praising them as “jagatah Pitarau”. 


Krishna’s wedding with his legally wedded wives is never celebrated but only his wedding with Radha is celebrated by Tamils in Temples which wedding never took place.  We also can’t keep tract of his real wedding anniversary Day. I believe Radha Kalyanam has been devised by Tamils influenced by the North Indian Tradition where Krishna is always seen with Radha as though they are really wedded couple so popular with ISKCON and Chaitanya movement. Even in Puri Lakshmi who was previously worshipped along with Jagannatha was driven out projecting   Jagannatha as Krishna Avatar to portray him with his siblings Subhadra and Balarama. Krishna remained sad as his true love did not end in the sacred ceremony of matrimony. Other wives realized his disappointment and grief and lived with him happily adjusting to the situation of his frequent running to Radha!



Diwali Festival again highlights Rama performing his Raja dharma as well as Kshatriya dharma in liberating a helpless captivated woman Sita but not his beloved wife. Why I say so will be clear if you go through the exchange of worrds between Sita and Rama when Hanuman brought her back from Asokavana after the killing of Ravana in Valmiki Ramayana. Rama doubted her chastity and asked her to marry any one of his already married brothers or even Vibhishana and live happily! How good husband he is suggesting polygamy while he was believed in Ekapatni Vrata and recommend remarriage after divorce? Devastated Sita entered fire to prove her chastity! This did not end here. She was deserted during her pregnancy and later when she met her she was not welcomed   she  was swallowed by  the Earth! So it was a Celebration of Women Liberation Movement. Whole Ramayana is focused on Dharma and the rest is history.



Sita’s married life was most miserable yet   Sita-Rama Kalyonotsva is the most popular and colorful ceremony in temple as ideal husband and wife glorifying his wedding with enchanting song “Seethakalyaaname Vaibhogame”. The doom of his married life was clearly indicated in his horoscope.


Vedic Astrology says Lord Ramchandra had Cancer ascendant with Moon in the first house with exalted Jupiter and therefore moon is in own house with exalted Jupiter forming not only Hamsa yoga but a Gajkesari yoga with Moon. Mars is exalted in 7th Capricorn forming Ruchak yoga and Saturn in 4th in Libra forming Sasha yoga and Sun and Mercury in the 10th in Aries where Sun is exalted and Venus exalted in Pisces in 9th aspect by Jupiter forming Bhagya yoga. Yet having so many Yogas Rama could not escape the consequences or the trials and tribulation, a human is likely to face. Mars in 7th gave Kuja dosha in married life and separation despite a powerful Jupiter aspect in his 7th house. His wife was loyal and virtuous but a victim of circumstances. In planetary war Jupiter is always defeated in war with Mars despite the Hamsa yoga and Chandra Mangala and guru Mangala yogas. The signification of 7th besides marriage also signifies war and he spent a long time fighting wars. The exalted opposition of the Sun with Saturn caused a friction with his father which caused him to go to exile. Traditionally Sun is the father and Saturn is the son.



Though most divine weddings are ascribed to the holiest day Panguni Uttiram on which day all the divine weddings are believed to have taken place temples conduct Kalyanotsava as per the demand by devotees on any day. It is also a rich source of income.  Venkateswara uses this ritual to raise huge sums of money to pay back the loan to Kubera he borrowed for his grand wedding! Kalyanotsava ritual is usually performed seeking the well-being of the entire humanity. However in Vaikhanasa Agama, which is in practice in Tirumala to carryout temple rituals, Kalyanotsavam is popularly known as “Vaivahika MahotsaThvam”.  So the couples especially the newly weds, who wish to have a blissful marital life with the blessings of Lord Venkateswara do participate in Kalyanotsavam in big numbers.


If Birthday of a divine  are celebrated on actual date  why not Wedding  Anniversariy  as well as the day of Ascent?  I believe it is altogether designed to celebrate all these things on human scale or norms? A big question is whether we need to perform all these human Samskaras on gods and treat them at par with us instead spiritually focusing on them? We need it to manage temples economically but not spiritually!  Why North Indian temple traditions   have not thought about such giant plans? We have to admire here over-flowing Tamil Bhakti Tradition! 


Union of the divine couple should be taken as symbolic union of the Jivatman   with Paramatman as symbolized in Radha Kalyanam that never took place! Kalyanotsva is interpreted on these philosophical lines by Sankara in his Atmabodha and Sadasiva Brahmendra in the popular song “khelati mama hridaye”.

Since Lord is the causeless cause He has no cause and hence no parents as it were! When 
we perform a Kalyanotsava for the Lord in effect he gets to enjoy the role of being our son and we the unique privilege to act as parents!  It looks as though even god is not exempt from this sort of human craving!  The Kalyanotsava provides the opportunity to tune the mind for Jnaana-- preparing the mind for Jnana and the resultant fruit of Moksha. So focus spiritually and so do not anxiously wait for the moment of “Mangalyam tantunahetur mama jeevana hetuna”



The proverb “marriages are made in heaven” suggests that there is a divine power behind marriages, and so lends weight and justification to a couple’s desire to marry.  It can be said that in the case of divines who have descended in human form on earth this decision is also taken in the heaven by the divine will with a purpose. In Rama avatara the divine decision in heaven was to solely preserve Sva -Dhrama so Rama has to suffer separation from Sita forever and focus on Dharma for he was questioned by his consciousness as   a human being as well as a by citizen  that doubted the chastity of Sita while Rama was determined on Ekapatni  Vrata--steadfast devotion  to one wife as dharma guide line to every man! Also his troublesome marriage was predicted by heaven as read from his birth horoscope.



The course of true love never did run smooth--people in love often have to overcome difficulties in order to be with each other; true love always has difficulties;  there will always be problems in a romantic relationship. Krishna could never marry Radha but his sincere love lingered on. He was obliged to marry 16000 distressed damsels a decision made in heaven too. He was able to persuade all his other legally wedded wives to live with Radha mostly enjoying her company. This was a sword edge walk but he could do it with his divine power with his multi-presence at the same time as Narada witnessed seeing Krishna everywhere. He could live in peace in pieces. Can humans do that? That reflects in Polygamy and polyandry we come across in Itihasa which we believe as true history and accepted as human Dharma. Also Krishna as human was killed by the arrow of a hiding hunter who mistook Krishna for a deer. Thus the law of Dharma was justified on earthy because in Rama Avatar Rama killed Vali by an arrow hiding himself behind a tree!



Again Subhramanya’s wedding was a heavenly decision spoiling the celibacy vow of Sanatkumara born as Skanda to Siva. Also the marriage of Devayanai as a celestial and Valli as a hunter princess, a human. Sanatkumara was also sent as Skanda to impart Jnaana to the world --Guruguha. He had to run between heaven and earth! This also displays Vedic dictum aatmavat sarvabhooteshu. samaanamaakootih sanghacchdvam, samvadadbvam --celestial or human love as the universal binding force is the same for GOD created Kama desire for all. Treat equally all who seek you!



Coming to Venkateswara  Vishnu descended on earth and assumed the human form on earth and went in search of Lakshmi his consort who also descended on earth and assumed human form in Kolhapur. Meanwhile in his human role he was strongly influenced by Kama and so married Padmavati. in t5jhe process he fulfilled his promise to Yashoda who also took the form of Vakuladevi. On having fulfilled his promise he freed himself from infatuation of love  accepted Lakshmi in his chest when share ran to Tirumalai and also joined Bhoodevi submitting to heavenly dictate Sreescha Lakshmeescha patnyau (purushasookta) the twin consorts of Vishnu. That is why nityakalyonotsva in Tirupati takes place with Sridevi and Bhudevi and also in all other places where this marriage is celebrated. As Venkateswara united with His Dharmic consorts lives in Bhuvaikunta (Heaven on Earth) leaving his true love Padmavati in Tiricchanoor on Earth. Tirupati is hailed as Bhuvaikuntha!



In this context I would like to draw your kind attention to Spiritual thoughts   of sex life based on Divine Wedding by Srila Prabhupada:

We come across divine weddings similar to humans but is sex possible between different persons in the spiritual world and how can they be divine   at the same time?     Drawing reference to   Srimad Bhagavatam 5.17.12, Srila Prabhupada explains that people have sex in the spiritual world and there is no possibility of conception there in Heaven. Whatever happened in Purana happened on Earth!


The term sex is in reference to the Sanskrit concept of rasa, the original spiritual relationships. In the material world this rasa is best reflected as mundane sex. But even in this there are many gradations according to the degrees of covering by the three modes. The Taittiriya Upanishad describes the degrees of enjoyment among the different human species, from the common man, to the Gandharva, Apsara, Siddha, Deva, Devadeva, Devendra, Brahma, etc.-- each being one hundred times greater or more complete than the previous.


As you go from lower species to higher species, what we refer to as sex exists in many different ways. It is the same for all the sensory activities. For example, our system of digestion is very gross. After we eat, the food is digested, and the waste is passed out. In the higher species such as Gandharvas, the waste products are evaporated into the air automatically. There is no passing of waste. So the entire system of digestion is much more subtle, which is in tune with their own subtle existence. The activity of sex is similar. As you move up through the species it becomes more and more subtle, and less physical. For the Gandharvas it involves mostly singing, for Apsaras it involves mostly dancing. For higher Devatas it involves mainly sight. When you come to the level of Lord Brahma, sex involves mainly the intellectual process. When you compare it to some of the lower species such as insects, they appear as completely different activities. For example after the praying mantis mates, the female eats off the head of the male. This is the same activity the Gandharvas are performing by singing. The only difference is that the coverings of the   modes are so thick and heavy that it comes out in such a low aspect. Now if there is such a huge contrast even between material sex, then what to speak of the difference between material and spiritual sex. Ultimately sex is the transmission of a relationship. When we are covered by the modes, this relationship takes a lower physical nature. As you go through to higher species, the relationship becomes less and less physical, and more subtle. When you come to the spiritual platform, it no longer is a physical or mental activity, but a spiritual exchange of a relationship. This exchange of relationship on the spiritual platform is called rasa. Thus when Srila Prabhupada refers to sex between different living entities in the spiritual world, he is referring to an exchange of a spiritual relationship. Srila Prabhupada mentions this in his purport to Srimad Bhagavatam 5.17.12:


“Another point in this verse is that in all eight of these heavenly verses although men and women enjoy sex pleasure, there is no pregnancy. Pregnancy takes place only in lower-grade life. For example,   animals like dogs and hogs become pregnant twice a year, and each time they beget at least half a dozen offspring. Even lower species of life such as snakes give birth to hundreds of young at one time. This verse informs us that in grades of life higher than ours, pregnancy occurs once in a lifetime. People still have sex life, but there is no pregnancy. In the spiritual world, people are not very attracted to sex life, due to their exalted devotional attitude. Practically speaking, there is no sex life in the spiritual world, but even if sometimes it does occur, there is no pregnancy at all. On the planet earth, however, human beings do become pregnant, although the tendency is to avoid having children. In this sinful age of Kali, people have even taken to the process of killing the child in the womb. This is the most degraded practice; it can only perpetuate the miserable material conditions of those who perform it.”


In the higher planetary systems conception occurs only once in the life, just prior to death. It is actually a great benefit for the female denizens of heaven, as they know when they are going to die. For the males on the other hand it is quite sudden and shocking. Of course, due to their absorption in sense gratification activities, even the females may be taken by surprise. The descriptions of the death of the higher beings are described in detail in the scriptures. The heavenly dwellers will be enjoying with their consort, drinking the soma rasa (a heavenly intoxicant), without any idea what is about to occur. At the point when their Punya (accumulated pious results) is finished they will suddenly fall from the heavenly realm (ksheene punye martya-lokam vishanti). There will be nothing supporting them below their feet. As they fall through the ethereal space, they can still see the heavenly abode, and they see their consort has immediately taken another partner for enjoyment, as though they had never existed. As he falls through the space, he comes to an area which is frequented by many lower beings. These beings know the area where the celestial beings fall through, thus they wait there to eat them as they fall from their heavenly abodes. These lower beings begin to devour the living entities heavenly body as he falls towards the earthly abode. While being eaten alive, the heavenly being observes his previous realm, and sees his previous consort continuing to enjoy with other men. At this time, due to the intense pain in his heart, he begins to cry, and his soul leaves his body through his eyes within a tear drop. The tear drop falls to earth and mixes with the rain clouds. When the rain falls, the soul of the heavenly being lands on the earth and enters into a seed of grain. The grain grows and is latter eaten by a human. The soul of the heavenly being (along with his subtle covering) thus enters into the semen of a human and is latter born within the earthly abode.

In the Gita Krishna briefly describes this process:

te tam bhuktva svarga lokam vishalam
kshine punye martya-lokam vishanti || 9-21 ||

“After enjoying in the heavenly abode (svarga-loka), when their pious results are exhausted, they again enter the abode of death”.


Krishna’s use of the word vishalam is significant, they do not just enjoy, as we enjoy. But their enjoyment is extremely vast. Their sense perception is hundreds of times greater than ours. When they smell a flower, or when they taste something, they are experiencing something completely different than what we are experiencing through our senses. (that is why Krishna mentions one flower, one leaf,  one fruit--pushpam patram phalam toyam).  It is like someone having a cold and a stuffy nose trying to smell a flower. They will not experience the flower. We are similar when compared to the higher heavenly beings. We are not actually experiencing matter in its true state. We have no idea of how something smells, tastes, or feels. This is what is described in the Taittiriya Upanishad. And as you go up to even higher beings, the case is the same for them, until you finally come to Lord Brahma, the engineer of the material universe. Only Lord Brahma can experience matter in its true fullness. Only he knows what a flower actually smells like, or what taste, touch and sight actually are. What then to speak of sense perception beyond matter. Spiritual sense enjoyment, cannot be understood by anyone within this material world. Even material sense enjoyment cannot be understood, it is practically limitless, yet higher, much higher, is the spiritual sense perception. Thus Krishna describes it as su-sukham kartum avyayam. By using the prefix “su” Krishna is stating that it belongs to an entirely different category from the ordinary happiness of this world.


In the purport Srila Prabhupada mentions the various grades of enjoyment, from the snake up to the demigods. When you compare the enjoyment of the demigod with that of the snake, they have very few similarities, what to speak of the spiritual enjoyment in Vaikuntha. We cannot compare it even to the highest activities within this world, even though it may be described in similar words. As far as pregnancy not occurring within the spiritual realm, this is an obvious fact, as there is neither birth nor death. Pregnancy is a process of the cycle of birth and death. In the Gita Krishna explains that whatever has a beginning in time will also have an end. Thus whatever is born is sure to die. I would not put too much importance on this statement in trying to understand what is this spiritual sex being referred to, as it is just a general fact, and not a particular description. The “sex” that occurs between two living entities within the spiritual realm is simply an exchange of a direct loving relationship between the two due to each-others appreciation for the others service to Krishna. It has no connection with the concept of sex as found within the mundane realm.


You can see above how even gods submit themselves  to human emotions and Dharma (Manava Dharma) while born as human beings at human level! Law makers cannot be law breakers! This is the purport of Kalyanotsava in temple ingeniously projected and displayed in temple festivals motivated by Puranas. With our limited understanding of the highly exaggerated riddles and parables in Puranas we remain confused and misled by misinterpretations of Puranas in their  following and teaching. Reading through the very descriptive married/love life of various gods in Puranas one wonders whether any moral can be drawn at all to lead a happy married life?  It is doubtful even some of the divine weddings celebrated in temples really took place?


Hindu Scriptures say that there are nine types of association between Bhagawan and ourselves. One is Husband-wife relationship--He is husband and we are wives. This is the association showed by the Gopikas. When Paramathma played His flute those gopikas who were attending to their children, tending to their mortal husbands and looking after the needs of cows and calves, left their activities and joined Krishna. This may be extended to all creations too as union of Jivatmas with Paramatman.  Probably this philosophy brought in Polygamy and Polyandry among Devatas as well as Puranic Society and also later brought in as human norms!





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Jahnava Nitai   Das, Bottom of FormTop of FormBottom of FormGods, Demigods and Incarnations Bhaktivedanta Krishna-

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Swami Prabhupada,  Bhagavad Gita, Macmillan Company, New York.





APPENDIX


DIVINE WEDDINGS OF FULL HUMAN  AVATARS GO THROUGH  MANAVA DHARMA OF PRAJAPATYA (PROGENY

We discussed above  how divine weddings on earth reflect human earthly experience of pain, pleasure and progeny. Our historians strongly believe and justify with archeological and planetarium studies that both Rama and Krishna were also divine historic figures. Based on our Puranas we have the following details as to how both Ikshvaku and Yadu dynasties have left behind a saga of historic record. But in the case of Siva-Parvati, Subhramanya-Valli- Devayanai and Gajanana with Gajanini or  Vinayaka with Siddhi and Buddhi, they being not human Avatars their wed-locks resulted at spiritual level of sex enjoyment with no further promotion of progeny. We will discuss it later.
Rama ruled 11,000 years as mentioned in Valmiki Ramayana, Vishnu Purana, Harivansha Puran, Agni Puran, Srimad Bhagavat Maha Puran (Lakshmana, Bharata andShatrughna are his siblings and they are also avatar of lord Vishnu)
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In the Ramayana, we find that, Lava and Kusha were the sons of Rama.Puranas provide a genealogical list from Kusha to Brihadbala, who was killed by Abhimanyu in the Mahabharata war (3138 BCE). Ikshvaku dynasty ended with Sumitra.

This was also mentioned in Matsya, Vayu and Brahmanda Puranas.Vishnu Purana also mentions that He, who was called Maya Moha in his previous birth, will be born as Siddhartha to King Suddhodhana. By propagation of his teachings, many give up their traditional Vedic religion to adopt new religion of Buddha and will be called as Bauddha
Buddha was the contemporary of Kshemajit, Bimbisara and AjataSatru, the 31st, the 32nd, and the 33rd kings of Magadha. The Buddhistic works say that Buddha was Seventy-two years old at the time of Ajata Satru’s coronation. According to the Puranas AjataSatru’s coronation was in 1814 BCE.
 As Siddhartha was born in lineage of Lord Rama in Ikshvaku dynasty, people of his generation might have considered him to be incarnation of Rama or Vishnu.
Lord Krishna, the Dwarkadheesh, the son of Vasudev, had 80 sons.  The list of the 80 sons of the Lord from his eight prime queens (ashta patraanis) are available in literature. Krishna’s son Pradyumna and Aniruddha are considered to be devatas and are worshiped in Parthasarathy Temple in Chennai. Aniruddha’s son was Vajranabha. His son was Pratibahu. Pratibahu’s son was Subahu. Subhau’s son was Shantasen. Shantasen’s son was Shatasen about whom we hear as the last ruler of Yadu dynasty!  

 I believe in the great deluge  of Dwaraka  Queen Rukmini, her son Pradyumna and her grandson Aniruddha were spared who being gods (devatas) ascended to heaven after Krishna’s departure. Hence their worship continues. Rukmini as Lakshmi was also worshiped for some time on the Ratnavedhi in Puri Jagannath and later thrown out bringing Subhadra to the front from the back (or placed at a distance) and to the right of Lord  Jagannatha on the dais. 



WHY SKANDA & GANESHA ARE NOT INTERESTED IN PRAJAPATYA 
(PROGENY) LIKE RAMA & KRISHNA?
It is popularly believed and glorified in our temple worship that Lord Shiva and his consort Parvati had two sons named Kartikeya (Kartika) and Ganesha (Vinayaka) which is far from truth.  The elder was Kartikeya and the younger Ganesha. In South India Kartikeya is popularly known as Lord Subramanya.

Kartikeya has two wives having the names: Valli and Devasena. He got his name from the 6 Krittikas who brought him up and consequently has 6 heads. Temples dedicated to Kartikeya are found in the Indian states of Odisha, Himachal Pradesh, Haryana, Delhi, and Maharashtra.  According to the Puranas ascetic Siva got attracted to voluptuous Parvati, but Kartikeya was not the outcome child of that union. The rhetus of love infatuated Siva got united with his other wife Ganga (forcefully tied with him) whom he carries always on his head and so Kartikeya is Gangeya who got nurtured by 6 Krittikas. An entire Purana, the Skanda Purana, is dedicated to Kartikeya that inspired Kalidasa to write the lyric Kumarasambhava which vividly describes the circumstances leading to Kartikeya’s birth including the lovemaking of Shiva and Parvati. Kings Kumaragupta and Skandagupta belonging to the preeminent Gupta dynasty have been named after him. But somehow, worship of Kartikeya in North-India began to decline from 5th century CE on-wards. Only in East-India (Odisha and Bengal particularly), he has importance and the Kartik Purnima is celebrated every year in his memory and honor till today. In Karnataka and Kerala, Kartikeya is worshipped as Subramaniya and there are temples dedicated to him in that name and form.

Kartikeya is worshipped as Murugan in Tamil Nadu (south India). In fact he is the Tamil hill-god there. The famous Batu caves, situated about a hundred kilometers from Malaysia’s capital Kuala Lumpur has a 140 feet high statue of Murugan. It is the tallest in the world. Kataragama   is a pilgrimage town sacred to Buddhist, Hindu and indigenous Vedda people of Sri Lanka. People from South India also go there to worship. The town has the Kataragama temple, a shrine dedicated to Skanda Kumara also known as Kataragama deviyo  located in the Monaragala District of Uva province, Sri Lanka  228 km ESE of Colombo, the capital of Sri Lanka. 

The first elaborate account of Kartikeya's origin occurs in the Hindu Sanskrit epic Mahabharata where he is said to have been born from Agni and Svaaha (Fire gods). Ramayana version of the birth of this fertility and harvest god is close to that in Puranas and is the most popular story concerning his birth.

Over a course of time Parvati consoled to the situation and accepted Kartikeya as her adopted son compromising with Siva who always denied her a womb-born child. Coming to the question of who is the elder between the two adopted sons of Ganesha and Kartikeya, for both are not womb-born to Parvati,  two epics and some Puranas indicate that he was the eldest son of Shiva and Parvati. In Shiva Purana, Kartika is seen helping Shiva fight the Parvati created   body-guard Naramukha Vinayaka   worshiped in a lone temple in South India.  In Brahma Vaivarta Purana, he is said to be the elder son of Shiva, and Ganesha the younger. Kartika is shown the younger of the two through the manipulative Tamil politics, to please Parvati and made to believe Ganesha is considered closer to Parvati than Kartikeya. Tamils venerate Siva-Parvati as ideal parents of the world.
This is how the drama took place as per the story. The celestial muni (devarshi) Narada was taken into confidence and it was agreed by the trio of Narada, Parvati and Shiva that a contest would be held to circumambulate the Brahmanda (universe) and whoever of Kartik and Ganesh would walk around first, he would be declared the elder. While Kartika sped around the world thrice on his carrier The Peacock, Ganesha did the same by walking around Shiva and Parvati and was the first to complete the task. Ganesha was naturally declared the winner and won the privilege of receiving the divine fruit of knowledge from Narada. This victory made Ganesha the god of wisdom. Ganesha became the wiser and was consequently declared the elder of the two by Narada and Parvati with Shiva toeing reluctantly. Ganesha was also made the first demigod to be worshipped as god. To clear the obstacle for Ganesha to get precedence over the somewhat biological elder brother Kartikeya, Shiva, under influence from Parvati, sidetracked Kartikeya by dispatching him to South India under the pretext of providing protection to the inhabitants there.
According to some opinion, Ganesha is the first born since he is referred to as UMA sutam (son created by Uma) and Uma was born prior to Parvati, another confusion. Uma is introduced to us in Upanishads as daughter of Himavan, a great Vedic scholar, but nothing is said about Siva being her husband. I believe Vedic Uma later became Puranic Parvati hailed as Meenakshi and got married to Sundareswarar.

There is a verse on Shiva which says that Kartikeya is elder who got angry when his parents produced another son Ganesha.I am convinced that biologically or historically Kartikeya is the first born. But to bring around angry   Parvati, Ganesha (surgically created) was manipulated to be called the elder though he was not the first son of Shiva-Parvati. But this is only in South India. No matter how much one may try, you can’t change date of their emergence. So Kartikeya remains the elder one for the vast majority of Indian populace.

Ganesha was brought to public domain and politicized by Bala Gangadhara Tilak during 19th/early 20th century India. The idol god became the rallying point of the Hindu Ganesh Puja is a highly commercialized annual festival in Mumbai and in some population to fight against the British colonial rule. As a result of this, Ganesha became the most popular god of Maharashtra since those days and continues to remain so in other parts of India too. In East India, Ganesha is revered primarily as a god who dispels obstacles (vighna nashaka) and only after that he is the god of wisdom.

Sanatkumara is introduced to us as Skanda in Chhandogya Upanishad. Siva requested him to be his son according to Siva Purana to which he agreed subject to a condition that his decent on earth should not be associated with any woman and also consequent of sex act he being eternal celibate. You know the rest of the story of Kumarasambhava. That is why Skanda  is called Guruguha known for his  Vedic Knowledge who even taught Siva.
Eventhough we hear about puranic weddings of Skanmda with Valli and Devbasena , Ganesha with Ganeshini or Siddhi and Buddhi we do not jhear about any child bweing born out of these wedlocksa similar to the  Srinivasa-Padmavati  marriage. This is explained by Srila Prabhupada as follows:

Srila Prabhupada mentions   in his purport to Srimad Bhagavatam 5.17.12 explains although men and women enjoy sex pleasure, at higher level than humans,   there is no pregnancy. Pregnancy takes place only in lower-grade life.   This verse informs us that in grades of life higher than ours, pregnancy may occur once in a lifetime. People still have sex life, but there is no pregnancy. In the spiritual world, people are not very attracted to sex life, due to their exalted devotional attitude. Practically speaking, there is no sex life in the spiritual world, but even if sometimes it does occur, there is no pregnancy at all.
Buddhism and Jainism
According to Richard Gombrich, Skanda has been an important deity in Theravada Buddhism pantheon, in countries such as Sri Lanka and Thailand. The Nikaya Samgraha describes Skanda Kumara as a guardian deity of the land, along with Upulvan (Vishnu), Saman and Vibhisana.
Similarly, the 16th-century Siamese text Jinakalamali mentions him as a guardian god. There are Buddhist Sinhala shrines such as at Kataragama dedicated to Skanda which have historically been officiated by Hindu priests, which attracted Buddhist devotees and enjoyed royal support. Since the 1950s, states Brian Morris, the Kataragama shrine of Skanda has attracted over half a million devotional pilgrims every year, most being Buddhists.

In Chinese Buddhism, Skanda has been portrayed as Weituo, a young heavenly general, the guardian deity of local monasteries and the protector of Buddhist dhamma. According to Henrik Sørensen, this representation became common after the Tang period and became well established in the late Song period. Skanda was also adopted by Korean Buddhism, and he appears in its woodblock prints and paintings.
According to Asko Parpola, the Jain deity Naigamesa, who is also referred to as Hari-Naigamesin, is depicted in early Jain texts as riding the peacock and as the leader of the divine army, which are both symbols of Kartikeya.







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